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When I am convinced I am right, I hold my ground until the other side gives in.

In a disagreement, I first try to understand exactly what the other side needs.

In a dispute I am quick to suggest where I can give ground and where the other person can.

I prefer not to bring up touchy subjects, so they do not turn into a conflict.

In a dispute, my relationship with the other person matters more to me than getting my way.

I treat a disagreement as a battle of arguments that I want to win.

I look for a solution where neither of us has to sacrifice what matters most.

Meeting halfway usually feels to me like a fair way to settle a disagreement.

When an argument is brewing, I try to steer the conversation elsewhere.

I often give in, because peace between us is worth more than my win.

In a dispute I push hard for my goal, even if it raises the tension further.

I openly say what I need and ask what the other person needs.

I would rather drop part of my demands than argue endlessly.

I let contentious things lie - they often resolve themselves in time.

When I see how much it matters to the other person, I let them have it.

When I want something, I can keep pressing others until they come around.

Even when a dispute is unpleasant, I keep talking until we find a solution that works for both of us.

When we get stuck, I look for a middle course we can both live with.

Rather than have a heated conversation, I prefer to avoid it altogether.

I accommodate the other person even when it means putting my own wishes aside.

I would rather have a heated exchange than concede on something I care about.

For me a disagreement is a chance to arrive at a better solution than either of us had at the start.

A deal where each side gives a little seems better to me than one side winning.

When a conflict breaks out, I withdraw and wait for things to calm down.

I would rather accept the other side's solution than risk souring the relationship.

In an argument I reach for any point that strengthens my position.

When I clash with someone, I want to know what lies behind their position - not just what they say.

On contested points I propose a trade: I yield here, you yield there.

I often keep my disagreement to myself, so I do not start a pointless dispute.

In an argument, I soften quickly when I see the other person is unhappy.

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