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Everyone gives and receives love differently. Find out which of the five love styles is yours, invite your partner, and see in black and white where you connect and where you miss each other.
The test reveals your love style on two levels - what you need to receive and how you give love yourself.
You'll find out not just what you need to receive, but also how you show love yourself. Two maps that often differ.
Send your partner the link, and once they finish the test, you'll see both profiles side by side, including your biggest matches and mismatches.
For each style you get practical tips on how to use it so your partner understands it.
For each statement you choose how much you agree on a 1-5 scale, from "strongly disagree" to "strongly agree".
Based on your answers, we immediately calculate your main love style on both levels - what you give and what you need.
In the extended version you get a detailed breakdown of all five styles, tips for your partner, and a comparison of both profiles.
Each style describes a different way people give and receive love.
Inspired by the five love languages concept popularized by Gary Chapman; our questions and scoring are an original instrument measuring separately how you show affection and what you need to receive.
The concept is based on the observation that people most often show and receive love through five styles: words of appreciation, quality time spent together, gifts, acts of care, and physical touch. When partners use a different style, they can easily miss each other even when both genuinely want to connect.
Our test measures a dual profile - separately what you need to receive, and separately how you show love yourself. The gap between the two levels is often the key to understanding why you sometimes miss each other despite good intentions on both sides.
The 5 Love Languages is a registered trademark of The Moody Bible Institute of Chicago. This website is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or connected to that organization; our Love Styles Test is an original instrument inspired by the general concept of differing affection styles.
About 6 minutes. You will answer 40 short statements, choosing how well each one describes you.
We measure a dual profile: separately what you need to receive, and separately how you show love yourself. The difference between the two is usually the biggest aha moment.
Once you finish the test, you get a link for your partner. As soon as they finish it too, the results page shows you both a comparison of your profiles. You will each be able to see the other's results.
No. This is a popular self-discovery framework, not a validated psychometric method. Treat the results as a map of preferences and a conversation starter - the partner comparison is approximate.