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When someone close to me plans a long trip or a move, I'm afraid they'll drift away from me.

When someone starts confiding very personal things to me, I try to make the conversation lighter.

When someone close to me forgets something that mattered to me, I tell myself I don't mean much to them.

When I'm unwell, I don't want the people close to me looking after me.

Before an important event, I need to hear more than once from someone close to me that they'll definitely be there.

When someone close to me asks how I'm really doing, I usually just say I'm fine.

When someone close to me doesn't reply to a message, I start fearing the worst.

When someone close to me says they need me, I'm more inclined to step back.

I often feel that I give more in relationships than the other person.

I tend to keep a certain emotional distance from people.

When someone close to me talks excitedly about someone new, I'm afraid I'll be pushed aside.

When I have a problem, I prefer to deal with it alone rather than with someone.

During an argument, I fear it could mean the end of the relationship.

Once a relationship starts getting serious, I mostly notice the other person's flaws.

I feel insecure when I don't know where I stand with my partner.

After I confide something personal to someone close to me, I keep expecting it might get passed on.

I tend to think about my relationships more than is healthy.

Independence is more important to me than closeness in a relationship.

I sometimes test people close to me to see if they really care about me.

I don't like showing my vulnerability to others.

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